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Apostate: The Consequences of LGBT, Transgenderism, Abortion, IVF, Surrogacy & Feminism
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Apostate: The Consequences of LGBT, Transgenderism, Abortion, IVF, Surrogacy & Feminism

Exploring how America turned into a culture of death

For the last century, America has been conducting a massive social experiment, tearing down every boundary that held society together for thousands of years.

"Love is love," they said. "My body, my choice," they insisted. "Gender is just a construct," they declared.

Well, the results are in…and they’re ugly.

The statistics don't lie, the bodies don't lie, and the broken families littering our streets don't lie. When you look at the data - not opinions, not feelings, but hard numbers - you see a nation bleeding out from self-inflicted wounds.

Mental illness at unprecedented levels. Suicide rates that would have been unthinkable two generations ago. Children turning to crime and addiction at rates that should terrify us all. Murder, disease, anxiety, abuse…and so much more.

  • What happens when you break up the family and "liberate" women?

  • What happens when children don't have their fathers?

  • What happens when homosexuality spreads like wildfire?

  • What happens when children cut off their genitals in exchange for a “new gender”?

  • What happens when parents decide that having sex does not mean “consenting to pregnancy”?

A nation once built upon Christian principles, America has now become an apostate, and God has given us up to our own destructive desires.

As it is written:

“And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless.

Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.”
Romans 1:28–32

For the non-Christians in America…some of the most sobering proof that Christianity is true is seeing what happens when society rejects its principles. If everything is just stardust bumping around, then none of these things matter.

But if God designed creation in a specific way, and everything he made is interconnected (family, relationships, society)…changing even one detail has catastrophic consequences. This is a wake up call to everyone in America.

  • For the Christians; we need to be bold and teach our nation the whole counsel of God and what it says about all areas of life.

  • For the non-Christians; Repent and turn to God. Look at what’s happened to our society when it’s built on godless principles, and put your trust in the King of the cosmos; Jesus Christ.


TABLE OF CONTENTS

  1. The Consequences of Feminism

  2. The Consequences of Homosexuality

  3. The Consequences of Transgenderism

  4. The Consequences of Surrogacy and IVF

  5. The Consequences of Murdering Children via Abortion


1. THE CONSEQUENCES OF FEMINISM

The first area I’m going to cover is women’s liberation; basically, when we decided that women didn’t need to be attached to a family unit, and that they really aren’t any different from men.

To be clear: this isn't going to be a comprehensive history of feminism (there are plenty of substacks that cover this). I want to focus on what's happened to our country as a result.

The Feminist Blueprint of Death

Kate Millett, a huge feminist influencer in the 1960s, laid out the plan clearly. As Joy Pullmann notes in her book False Flag1, Millett's "feminist catechism declared that the feminist goal was to make cultural revolution by destroying the American family, which they would accomplish by destroying monogamy."

How would they do this? By "promoting promiscuity, eroticism, prostitution, abortion2, and homosexuality."3

Right from the start, second-wave feminists declared these things were connected. They argued that patriarchy was historical, not natural, that femininity and womanhood were not biological conditions but socially constructed ideals that could and should be reconsidered.4

They wanted nothing less than the eradication of patriarchy.

But here's the thing: if gender roles and family structure are just cultural constructs with no biological basis, then there shouldn't be any consequences for changing them, right?

Wrong. Dead wrong.

Commitment Destroyed

The statistics tell a devastating story:

  • In 1960, only 5% of US babies were born out of wedlock. By 2010, that number had risen to 41%5

  • The number of children living with only their mother has doubled in the last 50 years6

  • The United States has the world's highest rate of children living in single-parent households: 23%7

When you're not married, the commitment isn't there. People can argue "it's just a piece of paper," but if it's just paper, then get it. You're making a covenant before God to be with this person for life.

Children pick up on this. They understand the difference between parents who are committed and those who always have one foot out the door.

Children Being Abused by Predatory Men & Their Own Mother

Here's where it gets dark. Children with two married biological parents have the lowest rate of domestic abuse by far. It's not even close.

The worst rates of abuse (mental, physical, sexual) occur when children live with one parent whose unmarried partner is in the house. Think about it: biological mom, dad leaves, she gets a boyfriend who's not married to her. That's the worst-case scenario for abuse.8

These men aren't committed to these children. They're dating the mother, maybe for sex, maybe for a relationship, but the children aren't their primary concern. When you remove the natural protector, the biological father, you leave the household as sitting ducks for predatory men.

But here's what will flip everything you thought you knew: mothers are more likely to abuse their children than fathers.

According to 2021 data from the US Department of Health and Human Services:

  • 38.0% of child victims were maltreated by their mother acting alone

  • 23.9% by the father acting alone

  • 20.0% by both parents (co-perpetration)

The feminist agenda has pushed this narrative that mothers are always the safe option, the default parent. But look at what actually happens. When you remove the balancing influence of a father, mothers are more likely to abuse.

That quarter of American children in single-parent households? They're not just susceptible to abuse from random unmarried partners. They're more susceptible to abuse from their own mothers.

The testimony of one woman, Maggie, raised by a single mother, captures it perfectly:

"The absence of my father in my life has led to so many awful things. I constantly felt unloved, unworthy, and abandoned. I craved a father figure and protection. This led to me seeking out unhealthy and abusive relationships with men who simply didn't care about me. Men cannot mother. Women cannot father. Kids need, crave, and benefit from having the right to both."9

Broken Home = Future Degenerate Adults

Joy Pullmann's research reveals the broader impact:

"People who do not grow up in the homes of their two married biological parents make, on average, worse citizens than people who do. Children afflicted by their parents' and communities' lack of sexual self-discipline have more trouble regulating their emotions, refraining from violence, following logical arguments, providing for themselves, achieving their potential, and respecting others' rights."

Think about that list:

  • Can't regulate emotions

  • More violent

  • Can't follow logical arguments

  • Can't provide for themselves

  • Don't respect others' rights

Sound familiar? Turn on any news channel covering a riot or pride parade. You've seen these people.

These children are also:

"far more likely to demand public resources than to contribute to them and to accelerate sexual chaos. Look into the background of a transgender person and you'll almost always find parental divorce or another serious childhood trauma.”

When you have a large portion of America full of complacent, lazy people relying on the state, completely dependent on what the government may or may not do, that's the fruit of broken families. They're looking for mommy and daddy everywhere, including in their voting booth.

It’s simply natural law that men and women are different and have specific, distinct roles. We all know this because God designed it that way.

If you decouple women from the family unit, you break down the family unit. If you do that, you destroy the child. The child grows up broken, demanding the state be their parent, supporting authoritarian policies that promise safety like a "substitute mommy”, and functions as a consumer citizen, not a producer.


2. THE CONSEQUENCES OF LGBT

So we’ve seen how "liberating" women destroyed the American family. Children without fathers. Mothers overwhelmed and abusing. A quarter of our nation's children living in broken homes, susceptible to predators and dysfunction.

But that was just the beginning.

Think of liberating women as step one. We still had the potential for a heterosexual unit. Sure, women were "liberated," roles were confused, divorces skyrocketed, but at least there was still the possibility of a man and a woman together. Even if it wasn't ideal, even with step-parents and broken homes, there was still some semblance of the natural order.

Step two asks a darker question: If women are exactly like men, if they should be "liberated" to do the same things with no distinct family roles, then what about sexual relationships themselves? Must you have a man and a woman to form a family unit? Or can you have woman and woman, man and man?

And if you have a gay relationship, which obviously cannot procreate biologically and exists outside God's design, what do you do? Try to have children through surrogacy or IVF? Just not have children? Marry someone who already has a child?

This is step two in the destruction of America: degrading the sexual ties themselves against God's design.

God Is Clear

Let's start where we should always start: God's Word.

The Bible affirms that marriage and sexual intimacy are ordained for one man and one woman.

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."

Genesis 2:24

Notice the specifics. A man leaves his father and mother (already implying the natural order) and holds fast to his wife. They become one flesh. This is a specific, designed union from the beginning of creation, woven into the fabric of reality itself.

Jesus affirms this when asked about divorce:

"Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, 'Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."

Matthew 19:4-6

Jesus takes this for granted as the created order. God has joined man and woman together in the unit of husband and wife to procreate, be fruitful, multiply, and take dominion. This is in the creation mandate itself.

Contrasting this, Romans 1:26-27 shows what happens when we reject God's design:

"For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error."

This couldn't be more explicit. Paul is referring to homosexual relationships as an extension of God's judgment. When God gives a nation up, homosexuality is one of the pivotal sins we can visualize as a sign of that judgment.

People try to perform interpretive gymnastics with these passages, claiming Paul meant something else. Don't waste your time. Any reputable translation, any serious scholar who isn't a deconstructionist fraud will tell you the same thing: Paul is talking about homosexual behavior.

Higher Rates of STDs

Men who have sex with men (MSM) account for a disproportionate share of serious sexual diseases. Although MSMs comprise only about 2% of the US population, they represented 67% of all new HIV infections in 2022.10 The rate of syphilis among MSM was 46 times higher than that of heterosexual men.11

The very nature of these acts, because they're outside God's design and misuse the body in ways it wasn't created for, naturally leads to disease. It's like putting water in a car's gas tank instead of gasoline. It's not just that it won't work; it will break other systems.

Higher Rates of Cancer

Gay men have significantly higher rates of certain cancers such as anal, colon, and testicular cancer, partly linked to higher rates of HIV and lifestyle factors.12 Lesbian and bisexual women have higher risks of breast and ovarian cancers, possibly related to lower childbirth and breastfeeding rates.

Makes sense, doesn't it? When you reject God's design for procreation and family, the body itself rebels.

Suicidal, Depressed and Broken

Gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth have significantly higher rates of suicidal thoughts and attempts, major depression, anxiety, and conduct disorders than their heterosexual peers.13 A US twin study found that men with same-sex orientation were much more likely to have attempted suicide, even after controlling for depression and substance abuse.

Here's the crucial point: these alarming health disparities persist even in socially accepting environments like Canada, undercutting the claim that stigma alone causes the poor outcomes.

Why? Because they're living against their design. They're trying to force their bodies and souls into patterns God never intended. Romans 1:27 warns they would receive "in themselves the due penalty for their error." This isn't just about eternal judgment; they're receiving penalties in real time through destroyed health.

More Domestic Abuse

Here's something the media won't tell you: domestic violence is notably higher in same-sex couples. The Gay and Lesbian Medical Association itself recognized this "hidden epidemic."14

  • 37% of lesbians have been physically abused as adults or children

  • 32% had been raped or sexually assaulted, often by their partners

Think about that. We're talking about two people in a relationship, and their own partner is sexually or physically abusing them at these rates.

Gay male relationships also experience significant domestic violence, but notably lesbian couples have the highest rates of all.

Remember earlier when we learned that single mothers had higher abuse rates? Now put two women together without the balancing the influence of a male presence. The abuse rates skyrocket. It's taking one of the worst situations (a woman not tied to a man in marriage) and doubling it.

Shorter Relationships, More Cheating

Homosexual relationships, particularly male partnerships, tend to be shorter-lived and less monogamous than heterosexual marriages. Gay author Andrew Sullivan himself noted that male couples are more likely to accept "extramarital outlets."15

The data backs this up:

  • 79% of heterosexual married couples valued complete sexual fidelity

  • 79% of lesbian couples valued complete sexual fidelity

  • Only 50% of gay male couples valued fidelity

Think about it. Men already struggle with lust as visual creatures. Without the balancing influence of a female partner, you put two men together with those same struggles. Of course infidelity rates explode. They're both fighting the same temptations with no complementary influence.

What Happens to the Children

This is where it gets heartbreaking. These children didn't ask for this.

Biology matters. Children fare best when raised by their married biological mother and father. Any deviation from this structure introduces risks.16

You cannot go to any intellectually rigorous institution and find data with a different conclusion. Children need their biological mother and father. End of story.

Same-sex parenting arrangements deprive a child of either a father or a mother. Two lesbians raising a son cannot provide a male role model. Two gay men raising a daughter cannot provide the unique nurture of a mother.

The Devastating Statistics

According to the Regnerus study17, children of lesbian mothers or gay fathers were:

  • 3–4x more likely to grow up on welfare (59–69% vs 17%)

  • More likely to have lower educational achievement

  • More likely to report depression

  • More likely to have been arrested

  • Rated their childhood family life as less secure

Alarmingly, daughters of homosexual parents reported far more sexual partners in adulthood and were much more likely to identify as non-heterosexual themselves.

Why? Because of the instability. The Regnerus study found that only 2 out of 248 children with a gay parent had lived with that parent and their same-sex partner from birth to age 18. It's a revolving door of relationships and partners.

10X The Sexual Abuse

Perhaps most disturbing: 23% of those with lesbian mothers reported having been touched sexually by a parent or other adult caregiver during childhood, versus only 2% of those with an intact biological family.18

That's a 10x increase in child sexual abuse.

When your entire outlook on sexual relations is scattered by habitual sexual sin, when you've already rejected God's design for sexuality, why wouldn't that deviation extend to other areas, including age?

Jesus takes children seriously. Why don’t we?

"Whoever causes one of these little ones to stumble, it would be better for him to have a millstone hung around his neck and be drowned"

Matthew 18:6

Fertility & Fatherlessness

When marriage is redefined as an emotional union of any two adults, it sends the cultural message that children are optional and procreation is unrelated to marriage.19 Countries leading in same-sex marriage (Netherlands, Sweden, Canada) also suffer some of the lowest fertility rates in the world, well below replacement level.

We already have a fertility crisis from abortion. Add in gay couples who biologically cannot have children, and society accelerates toward collapse.

To make it worse, if society says two women can raise children just as well as a mother and father, then a man might more easily rationalize: "My kids don't really need me. Their mom can do the job or find someone else."

Same-sex marriage institutionalizes the idea that children don't need both a mom and dad, further eroding paternal commitment even in heterosexual contexts.

The Propaganda Machine

<10% of the US population has historically identified as LGBT20, yet close to half the country supports LGBT policies. Why? Elite money and propaganda have been shoving this down our throats for 50 years.

A moral truth held for millennia (marriage is between a man and a woman) was labeled bigotry overnight. Those who dissent face legal jeopardy. If you don't want to provide services celebrating this lifestyle, you're labeled a bigot who deserves to be destroyed.

Joy Pullmann summarizes it perfectly in her book False Flag:

"Sexual Marxism is not love. It's hatred. It's hatred of fatherhood and motherhood, children, and all natural human connections. Without family, people go insane. They are only fit for mental institutions. It's no coincidence that's what our nation's streets increasingly resemble."

She's right. We started with liberating women, which alone could destroy a nation. Then we progressed to same-sex couples and sodomy. The bad fruit is visible everywhere: health crises, abuse epidemics, mental illness, destroyed children, societal collapse.

Even secular studies and LGBT-authored reports acknowledge many of these facts. This isn't disputed. They can see it too. Yet increasing societal acceptance hasn't eliminated these problems; it's spread them. When you keep telling people sin is okay, they will find more creative ways to sin.


3. THE CONSEQUENCES OF TRANSGENDERISM

We've traced the downward spiral. First, we "liberated" women from God's design for the family. Then we normalized sodomy, pretending two men or two women could replace a mother and father.

Now comes the inevitable conclusion: If gender roles don't matter, if sexual distinctions are just preferences, then why should gender itself be fixed?

Let's define terms. Transgenderism refers to identifying or living as a gender different from your biological sex. We're talking about chromosomes here: XX, XY. Your actual, God-given gender. Not just switching to the opposite sex either. People now claim to be different species, multiple genders, no gender at all. The rebellion has no limits.

Before we dive into the devastating statistics, I need to address two objections people always raise:

Objection 1:

"These stats don’t necessarily mean all of these issues are inherently because someone is transgender, it could also be external factors."

Because we already know the biological family is what makes humanity flourish, any deviation from that will always cause the same issues. Children need their biological mother and father. Period. Any deviation from this causes harm. So when Dad decides he's now "Mom," it doesn't matter if society is accepting. The fundamental structure God designed has been shattered.

All of the data I’ll share can be traced back to rejecting God’s normal order in family, marriage, parenting, childhood, etc.

Objection 2:

"It's all due to discrimination. If we were just ‘nicer’ to trans people, the problems would disappear."

This is wrong for multiple reasons. First, the data shows problems persist even in accepting environments. Second, God uses all means to bring judgment, including societal rejection. When someone feels like the "odd one out" for denying reality, that discomfort is part of God's mercy, warning them to turn back.

Whether consequences come from biology breaking down or society rejecting delusion, God is sovereign over both. He's given us up as a nation, and these are the fruits.

Marriages Destroyed

First off, only around half of romantic relationships survive through a partner's gender transition21. Think about why. You're a woman who married a man. That man, his masculinity, his role as husband and father, that's part of who you married. When he decides he's now a woman, he's becoming a different person entirely.

The person you made a covenant with before God is essentially abandoning their identity. Even if the marriage doesn't end in divorce, it faces breakup, loneliness, and relational conflict. Why? Because one spouse has placed a massive psychological burden on the family so they can chase a delusion.

Americans think individualistically: "I can do what I want as long as I have my career, my money, my family." There's no concept of ties, responsibilities, duties that come with being a husband or father. People think we're all just interchangeable units that come together for fun.

That's not reality. As a man, I have specific responsibilities as a husband and father. If I "transitioned" to a woman, I couldn't just change my responsibilities. That's not how God designed it.

When Dad becomes "Mom," you don't have two moms. You have a broken family structure that mirrors the homosexual dysfunction we covered in Chapter 2. All those abuse statistics, mental health crises, and developmental problems? They're back, but worse.

Children Becoming Infertile

Research shows that roughly 80% of pre-puberty children with gender dysphoria eventually desist22, meaning they stop identifying as transgender by adulthood. In one study, 61% had reconciled with their birth sex.

Let that sink in. The vast majority of kids who think they're transgender at age 8, 10, 12, or 14 grow out of it. Yet what are parents doing? Taking their children to doctors to mutilate their genitals. Putting them on puberty blockers. Permanently altering their bodies for what is overwhelmingly likely to be a phase.

These drugs pause normal development23, but studies show they cause loss of bone density during crucial growth years24. Teen patients on blockers had bone density scores below average, with the longest users showing the worst outcomes. Weaker bones, higher fracture risk, and unknown long-term effects on development.

Worse, puberty blockers followed by cross-sex hormones may prevent normal maturation of sperm or eggs, effectively sterilizing the patient. We're talking about 11 and 12-year-olds being made infertile because they said they felt like the opposite sex.

These are weighty consequences for adolescents, many of whom cannot grasp the impact on their future ability to have children. Critics correctly argue that children cannot give truly informed consent for treatments that sterilize them and impair their physical development.

Higher Rates of Prostitution & 100X HIV

Due to discrimination and employment difficulties, roughly 13% of transgender respondents reported engaging in sex work25. Transgender women (male to female) are twice as likely as transgender men to have done sex work. In some international studies, 24–75% of trans women reported involvement in the sex industry26.

Even as fake women, biological men transitioning to female can't escape the male disposition toward sexuality. They're still twice as likely to enter sex work compared to women transitioning to men. The biological differences between men and women persist even through the delusion.

Transgender sex workers face especially high rates of HIV infection and physical assault27. A CDC survey of 1,600 transgender women in seven major US cities found that 42% tested positive for HIV28. Compare that to 0.3–0.4% in the general population. That's over 100 times higher.

19X Death by Suicide

The 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey (USTS) is the largest survey examining the experiences of transgender people in the United States, with 27,715 respondents. The findings were:

  • 39% of transgender respondents experienced serious psychological distress in the past month (vs. 5% general population)29

  • 40% have attempted suicide in their lifetime (vs. 4% general population)30

A landmark long-term study in Sweden31 tracked all transgender persons who had sex-reassignment surgery in the country over several decades and found:

  • Post-surgery transgender individuals are 19 times more likely to die by suicide

  • Trans people are nearly 5 times more at risk of suicide attempts

  • Trans people are almost 3 times more at risk of psychiatric hospitalization

When you deny the gender God gave you, when you rebel against something so fundamental it stares you in the face every day, it's hard to have a foundation for hope. You're saying to God, "I know better than you. I'll be my own god."

This spiral devastates the transgender community. Mental health issues lead to transition. Post-transition brings new problems. Regret sets in. But they're still denying God, so they have no foundation for hope. Despair deepens until suicide seems like the only escape.

Cutting Up the Body

A Dutch study examining five decades of data found transgender women (males on estrogen) had 1.8 times the mortality rate of normal men and 2.8 times that of women32. They died at higher rates from cardiovascular disease, blood clots, lung cancer, HIV, and suicide.

Despite 50 years of medical advances and massively increased social acceptance, mortality rates haven't improved. The problems are inherent to fighting against biology.

The surgeries are horrifically complex33 with astronomical complication rates:

  • Phalloplasty (creating a penis for women): 76% of patients experience complications. Over one-third develop urethral fistulas. About a quarter get urethral strictures. Multiple follow-up surgeries are common.

  • Vaginoplasty (penile inversion): notable complication rates include wounds coming apart, narrowing requiring dilation, and functional issues needing corrective procedures.

These aren't simple operations. They're complex attempts to remake what God designed, and the body fights back. Chronic pain, infection, difficulty with urination, sexual dysfunction - the list goes on.

The Full Picture

Let's sum up what transgenderism accomplishes:

  • Destroys marriages

  • Destroys parenting relationships

  • Confuses and harms children

  • Has an 80% regret rate in youth

  • Destroys fertility

  • Encourages prostitution and sex trafficking

  • Causes HIV rates over 100x normal

  • Results in astronomical suicide rates

  • Requires complex surgeries with majority complication rates

  • Demands lifelong hormone dependence

  • Reduces life expectancy

It’s like God is saying:

"You want to deny my design? You want to be your own god? Try it. See how it works."

4. THE CONSEQUENCES OF IVF & SURROGACY

Now we arrive at the inevitable conclusion: if family structure doesn't matter, if sexual boundaries are meaningless, if even biological sex is optional, then why should children come from families at all?

Welcome to the world of IVF and surrogacy, where children are manufactured, frozen, bought, and sold like commodities. Where the adult desire for offspring trumps the child's need for their biological parents. Where we've turned procreation into a business transaction.

Definitions

IVF (In Vitro Fertilization): A medical procedure where eggs are fertilized by sperm outside the body, in a lab. The resulting embryo (a human being, not a potential one) is then implanted into a woman's uterus.

Surrogacy: An arrangement where another woman carries and delivers a baby for someone else.

Variations of surrogacy:

  • Traditional surrogacy: The surrogate provides the egg, making her the biological mother

  • Gestational surrogacy: An embryo created via IVF is implanted into a surrogate who has no genetic link to the baby

The Entitlement Complex

All IVF & surrogacy arrangements flow from the same poisoned well:

the belief that adults are entitled to children.

God gives us the natural desire for children, especially the women who bear them. That's normal and good. But when natural barriers arise (infertility in a heterosexual couple, or the obvious barrier in homosexual couples), we see an underlying thread of entitlement emerge.

Just because God's design includes the command to be fruitful and multiply doesn't mean you can circumvent His sovereignty when He closes the womb. You can't go around God to fulfill His commands on your own terms. Here's Brian34, a child of surrogacy, reflecting on his experience:

"I don't care why my parents did this. It looks to me like I was bought and sold. You can dress it up with as many pretty words as you want, but the fact is that someone contracted you to make a child, give up your parental rights, and hand over your flesh and blood child. When you exchange money for something, it's called a commodity. Babies are not commodities. They're human beings."

Brian captures it perfectly. We've taken the glory of a child being born to parents who will raise them in God's natural order, and we've turned it into a sterile transaction.

So, let’s go through all of the different combinations and scenarios where these transactions occur.

Scenario 1: The Infertile Christian Couple

A husband and wife, perhaps even Bible-believing Christians who want to fulfill God's mandate to fill the earth. They're infertile. What are their options?

They could adopt. They could pursue legitimate medical solutions if there's an identifiable, fixable problem. But here's the key: God gives children. Period. It doesn't matter what natural means He uses to give them or block them. The blockage might even be a judgment, or discipline, for a time. Ultimately, God is sovereign.

Scripture is full of barren women crying out for children. What's the consistent message? God opened the womb. God gave the child. Not technology, not human ingenuity. God.

Scenario 2: The IVF Route

When couples choose IVF, here's what they're actually choosing:

  • Mass incarceration of children: About 1.5 million embryos are currently frozen in the United States35. Human beings suspended in liquid nitrogen.

  • Mass murder: The CDC reports that only 2.3% of IVF embryos result in live birth36. That means 97% die during freezing, thawing, implantation, or early development.

  • Eugenics in practice: The IVF industry grades embryos37. If they don't meet certain criteria, they're discarded. Killed because they might have Down syndrome or aren't “perfect.”

  • Even “safe” IVF is deadly: Some argue for using only one embryo (not common). But even then, you're intentionally putting your child in extreme danger for your own desires.

This is essentially abortion with a scientific wrapper that makes people feel justified.

Scenario 3: Two Dads and a Surrogate

With two dads, you need:

  • Sperm from one dad

  • An egg from a female donor

  • A surrogate to carry the baby

The result? A child with at most 50% relation to one dad, 0% to the other, and a complete absence of a mother.

Katie Faust38 puts it beautifully:

"When a child is born, this is supposed to be the day they meet the mother they already love. Newborns are put on their mother's chest because we are igniting the existing bond that is already present. The mother's voice, smell, and characteristics soothe the baby. Exclusively the mother herself lowers the baby's cortisol levels. Not strangers, not even the child's father can do this."

When a surrogate hands over that baby for money, trauma is immediate and lasting.

Scenario 4: Two Moms and Missing Fathers

With lesbian couples, you might have:

  • Sperm from a male stranger

  • IVF using one mom's egg

  • Either mom or a surrogate carrying the baby

This fragments motherhood into three pieces: genetic, gestational, and social. God designed them to be one.

Heather Barwick39, raised by two moms, shares her experience:

"I grew up surrounded by women who said they didn't need or want a man. Yet, as a little girl, I so desperately wanted a daddy. It is a strange and confusing thing to walk around with this deep-down unquenchable ache for a father, for a man, in a community that says that men are unnecessary."

The truth can be suppressed but not destroyed. Children long for their father and mother - not substitutes, not social arrangements, but their own parents.

The Marxist Endgame

The biblical model is clear: hierarchy, family ties, responsibilities, connections, community, nations. Father as head of household, mother, children.

The Marxist model seeks to flatten everything. Make everyone interchangeable. The result?

  • Women's liberation → destroyed families

  • Homosexuality → destroyed sexuality

  • Transgenderism → destroyed identity

  • IVF/Surrogacy → destroyed procreation

The endgame? No family ties at all. Every child manufactured and distributed by the state or market. No biological connections. Just interchangeable units in the machine.


5. THE CONSEQUENCES OF MURDERING CHILDREN VIA ABORTION

We've traced the descent step by step. First, we "liberated" women from their God-given roles. Then we normalized sodomy. Next, we pretended gender itself was changeable. After that, we turned children into manufactured commodities.

Now we arrive at the inevitable conclusion: disposable children.

When you've destroyed every aspect of God's design for family, sexuality, and procreation, what's left? Kill the children who survive all your other rebellions. Murder the ones you couldn't prevent through your perversions. Sacrifice the inconvenient reminders that actions have consequences.

I've done extensive work on abortion specifically. During last year's election season, I focused on it for three to four months straight. But for this series, I want to stay on theme: What are the consequences? What happens when a nation commits child sacrifice on an industrial scale?

The Mental Health Apocalypse

A 2011 meta-analysis in the British Journal of Psychiatry found that women who had undergone induced abortion experienced an 81% increased risk of developing mental health problems compared to women with no abortion history40.

This analysis of 22 studies covering over 160,000 women suggested that nearly 10% of all mental health problems in the population were attributable to abortion.

Think about that. In a group of 160,000 women, one in ten mental health issues could be directly traced to abortion. That was the only factor that could explain the problem.

The issues include anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. When you kill your child, whether you try to rationalize it or not, regret follows. This isn't like other mistakes we make in daily life that we can forget. This cuts deeper.

There's forgiveness in Jesus Christ. If you've had an abortion and don't know Jesus, there's forgiveness and reconciliation available. But if you continue to rebel against God, there will be regret over your sin.

No matter how young the mother, no matter how crazy the situation, at bottom, women still have the natural desire for children. As depraved as some might become, it's still in their bones. There's always going to be a lingering, deep regret that bubbles up because they intentionally discarded the life of their own child.

If this really was just "a woman's choice," if there were no problems, if "when life begins" was just a religious question, then this should be a happy day. "Hey, I don't need to be a mom right now!" (Even though she already is one)

But the regret proves we all know that's nonsense. We know what we're really doing. If we didn't, if it really was just a clump of cells or a simple procedure, there wouldn't be this regret.

The Suicide Epidemic

The same 2011 meta-analysis reported that women with a history of abortion were 4 times more likely to die by suicide than women without abortion history.

Let that sink in. If Woman A has had at least one abortion and Woman B has never had one, Woman A is 400% more likely to commit suicide.

Additionally, 34% of suicides among post-abortive women could be associated with their abortion experience. A third of all suicides among women who've had abortions are directly linked to that decision.

Suicidal behavior and substance abuse showed the strongest correlations. Just like with the transgender situation we covered, when you have no hope, no Christ, nowhere to turn, suicide becomes your final "hope."

PTSD Symptoms

We usually think of PTSD in terms of military service or extreme violence. But a 2010 study in the Journal of Pregnancy found that 52% of women who had early abortions met criteria for PTSD at some point afterward41. For late-term abortions (after 20 weeks), 67% met PTSD criteria.

Symptoms include nightmares, flashbacks, trouble sleeping, and hyperarousal. A 2004 US study reported that 65% of women experienced some PTSD-like symptoms after abortion, with risk heightened when women felt pressured, ambivalent, or had later-term procedures.

So far, we have women who get abortions (legally, whether pressured or not, even if brainwashed by media that it's "just a procedure") and afterward:

  • Become depressed

  • Become suicidal

  • Suffer PTSD symptoms

That alone should be enough. If abortion clinics told women these risks beforehand (which they don't, because they want your money), many might reconsider.

Think about pharmaceutical ads: "Here's the magic pill that cures this disease!" What do they always say at the end? "May cause death." They legally must disclose risks and get consent.

They don't do that with abortion. If they told women these statistics, many would have second thoughts.

But it gets worse.

Cursing Your Future Children

A 2009 meta-analysis found that women with one prior abortion had a 35% higher risk of preterm birth42. If a woman has an abortion, then years later wants a baby, she has a 35% higher chance of that baby being born before 37 weeks.

The risk nearly doubled (93% risk) for women with multiple abortions. And by the way, multiple abortions are increasingly common, especially with the mass distribution of the abortion pill making it very easy to kill your child.

Some analyses estimate that 31% of premature babies in NICUs are born to mothers whose only known risk factor was a prior abortion.

Walk into a NICU with 30 babies. Ten of them are there because their mother had an abortion. That's the only identifiable risk factor.

Annually, US hospitalization costs for abortion-related prematurity exceed $1.2 billion43. They're profiting from this destruction.

The mechanisms include cervical trauma from dilation, uterine scarring or inflammation, and higher risks with surgical abortions.

Believe it or not, when you're pregnant with a baby in your womb, God has a particular process that He designed. If you interrupt it with surgical tools halfway through, you curse yourself biologically. Your future babies will likely be premature.

Abortion = More Breast Cancer

A 1994 study in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute reported that abortion increased breast cancer risk by 50% before age 45.44

How many abortions are we having every year? Over a million documented ones, and we can't even track the abortion pills taken. It's well over a million annually.

The highest risk groups were:

  • Teen abortions: 150% increased breast cancer risk

  • First abortion after age 30: Double the risk

  • Teen abortion plus family history of breast cancer: Nearly 100% increased risk of developing breast cancer by mid-40s

A 2014 Chinese review confirmed a dose-response relationship:

  • One abortion: 44% increased breast cancer risk

  • Two abortions: 76% increased risk

  • Three abortions: Even higher

Having multiple abortions is incredibly common. You have almost a 50% chance of getting breast cancer before age 45 after just one abortion. They won't tell you that at the clinic.

The explanation? Abortion interrupts breast cell differentiation, leaving vulnerable, undifferentiated cells exposed to cancer risk. When you interrupt the natural process of pregnancy, all the interconnected systems break down.


Now What?

I hope by now you see the point I've been making throughout this series; We live in God's universe.

People hear that and say:

"We're just evolved animals from the Big Bang, we make up our own ethics, enough of your religious nonsense Joe!”

But that doesn't coincide with reality. Our culture says all these things are good:

  • Women's liberation? Good!

  • LGBT? Celebrate it!

  • Transgenderism? No problem!

  • Manufacturing children? Sure!

  • Killing unwanted children? Your choice!

If these really weren't problems…if they weren't going against divine design, we wouldn't see all of these consequences.

God’s Design for Family

The man is head of household, loving his wife sacrificially, protecting and providing. Wives submitting to husbands as we all submit to God, being homemakers (not 1950’s housewives, nor working for a corporation), raising children, leading in childbearing. Together as a family, bringing everyone up in the knowledge of the Lord.

God’s Design for Relationships

God made men and women distinct and different. They go together specifically. Screw up that relationship, and consequences flow.

Gender Reality

God made you male or female. You can't change your gender.

Children as Gifts

You're supposed to have children with your spouse. If you can't, pray to God. Don't circumvent Him with IVF, freezing embryos, or surrogacy. That's against His design.

Life is Sacred

If you have sex and conceive a child, but selfishly don't want that child, tough. Killing them is murder, and God sees it.

The Choice Before Us

America is falling. As I finish up editing this, it's been 2 weeks since Charlie Kirk’s assassination attempt. We're starkly divided between good and evil in our country, and people are waking up.

Many of you listening might not be Christians. Maybe you're unsure, maybe you're atheist. Whatever your belief system is, you can't deny the reality in front of you.

All the leftist principles running through America lead to:

  • Death

  • Mental illness

  • Suicide

  • Cancer

  • Children being abused

  • Children becoming criminals

  • Societal breakdown

When you follow God's way in all these areas, mankind flourishes:

  • Lifespans increase

  • Mental health improves

  • Children are born and raised well

  • Society flows like water

This is the most powerful testimony that Christianity is true.

If you're not a Christian, go read your Bible.

God made the world. Deep down, when your head hits your pillow at night, you know this. You know God exists and made everything. But instead of bowing the knee and following Him, we disobey him because WE want control.

Every disobedience heaps judgment on our heads. Every lie, every lustful look (which Jesus says is adultery in the heart), every selfish outburst…These "little" things we think are normal? Each one is active rebellion against God.

Judgment is coming.

God will judge every work and secret thing we've done, whether good or evil. The judgment for the wicked who won't bow the knee is hell: being tormented day and night forever and ever.

he also will drink the wine of God’s wrath, poured full strength into the cup of his anger, and he will be tormented with fire and sulfur in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb. And the smoke of their torment goes up forever and ever, and they have no rest, day or night...”

Revelation 14:10–11

You might think that's harsh. But tonight when you go to bed, think about never escaping God's judgment. How horrible that would be.

But here's the good news: Hell isn’t the only thing that lasts forever.

How do you escape the judgement to come? You have to bow the knee and have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Turn to God in remorse and plead for forgiveness.

Two thousand years ago, Jesus Christ came as both man and God. He lived a perfect life, died on a cross, and rose from the dead. God poured out all His wrath on Jesus instead of on his people.

If you turn to Jesus in faith, acknowledge Him as Lord, and follow Him because He first loved you, God won't put that judgment on you. Jesus’s death on the cross will be the payment for your sin.

Now Christ's perfect righteousness gets applied to you. You're good, and you'll live with God forever instead of going to Hell. While you await your life in eternity, you’ll strive to do good things on earth, not so you get into heaven, but because you love the God that saved you.

If that's news to you, think about it. Read your Bible. Find a local church. Message me.

The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil

Ecclesiastes 12:13–14

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